Sex is healthy and it’s a great way to relieve stress and connect with your partner and yourself on an intimate physical and emotional level. As human beings, most of us work with goals and timelines, whether it’s at work or at home and sex is no different.

Hence, below, we catalogue 5 sex milestones you should aim to hit before 30. No pressure, though. Take your time and don’t let anyone make you feel like you have to do anything.

Try out a threesome

This is literally the most overrated sex milestone ever but well, give it a try. 

Have sex on the beach

You’ll get sand everywhere and spend the next day itching but nobody said it would be easy, they just said that it’d be worth it.

Try out BDSM

You can go mild or full on choking/whipping/bear traps/whatever weird stuff the kids are into these days.

Have sex/makeout with someone of the same sex (if you’re heterosexual)

How do you know you don’t like it if you haven’t tried it? However, do note that homosexuality is not a ‘fetish’.

Commit to having sex with one person for the rest of your life?

This is literally the wildest thing you can do in the midst of this hookup culture of ours.